The Miracles We Take For Granted

View this post on Instagram Being in a loving, long term relationship, having babies… they're all miracles that are so commonplace and easily entered into for most people that most take them for granted. 💜 I was talking about this with @vickitysquare this past weekend. As a single, childless woman I sit outside of both … Continue reading The Miracles We Take For Granted

The #RoyalWedding is the Perfect Example of Why I Want to Elope

Most of us like Meghan Markle.  She’s gorgeous, she’s adorable, and she’s smart.  She’s accomplished, she’s an actor, and she has a career.  She is Black and divorced and American.  She lives life on her own terms. But the real reason why many of us like Meghan Markle is because her family is as jacked … Continue reading The #RoyalWedding is the Perfect Example of Why I Want to Elope

They That Wait!!: The Story of Chad Johnson (and Michelle Williams)

Can I just say that I low-key have a crush on Michelle Williams’s fiancé Chad Johnson? When I first heard news of this engagement, my first thoughts were: Wasn’t she already with someone?  Well, good for her. Oh!  He’s White!! At least someone loves us… we can always count on a White man to appreciate … Continue reading They That Wait!!: The Story of Chad Johnson (and Michelle Williams)

Rejection, Resilience and Being Real: #JeannieMai Mentioned my Blog on @TheRealDaytime (AHH!) and How She Inspires Us All Through Her Divorce

Ok.  *Breathe*  First thing’s first… I wrote a blog post on Friday.  This happened on Monday: The post above is the toned-down version of my first post: When her voice cracked and she started to choke up and I heard her say my name and look straight into the camera, it sent shivers down my … Continue reading Rejection, Resilience and Being Real: #JeannieMai Mentioned my Blog on @TheRealDaytime (AHH!) and How She Inspires Us All Through Her Divorce