The 29-year-old Chronically-Single Lawyer and the 27-year-old Virgin/Pastor’s Kid…

A 29-year-old single lawyer and a 27-year-old virgin walk into a bar… I’m joking. But the following video is no joke. I found it sobering. I was watching an episode of TD Jakes show (I didn’t even know he had a new show!) and it just got me thinking a whole bunch of thoughts: I … Continue reading The 29-year-old Chronically-Single Lawyer and the 27-year-old Virgin/Pastor’s Kid…

What if We Thought About the Potential Answers to our Questions Before We Asked Them?

What if we thought about the potential answers to our questions before we asked them? What if we really thought about our questions and how personal or intrusive they could be if asked? What if we took a moment to conjure or imagine the responses that our questions could elicit, even though they may be … Continue reading What if We Thought About the Potential Answers to our Questions Before We Asked Them?

I Asked Ten Male Friends About Being Single, and Here’s What They Said…

I asked ten men about being single, and here’s what they said… Well, the title is a little bit of a teaser, and a little misleading. What really happened is that I asked ten male friends about why women always dominate the conversation around singleness or singlehood.  We always seem to be the ones who … Continue reading I Asked Ten Male Friends About Being Single, and Here’s What They Said…