It’s Not You: Why We Need to Stop Blaming Ourselves for Every Little Thing

I had a major epiphany last week.  Are you ready for it? It’s not you. It’s not me. I am actually not necessarily the cause of all of my problems. Some of you probably just read that and thought “duh,” but this was an earth-shattering, ground-breaking revelation for me. I know I wrote about something … Continue reading It’s Not You: Why We Need to Stop Blaming Ourselves for Every Little Thing

If you’re not watching “Insecure,” Go Get Cho Lyyyyyfe!

I was doing pretty good for most of the day. But then the sun set at 4:00 pm. And then I went grocery shopping. And then I went home. And I was tired. And I still had to cook. And I still had to do laundry. And then I remembered that I ain’t got no man, no money, no car, and now, no career. So I baked some frozen fries and chicken fingers and plopped down on my couch in my underwear and with my apple juice and watched “Insecure.” This is how I “turn up” on a Tuesday night. And now I feel so much better about myself and my life. Continue reading If you’re not watching “Insecure,” Go Get Cho Lyyyyyfe!

When Life Gives You Side Chicks, Make Lemonade: On Beyoncé, Israel and Other Indiscretions

Guys, I need to unpack the past two months of celebrity relationship news because they are really causing me to do some hard thinking. This is the year of “anything can happen.” Austin Null of The Nive Nulls (my favourite YouTube family) recently discussed how he cheated on his wife Brittney. Tina Campbell of Mary … Continue reading When Life Gives You Side Chicks, Make Lemonade: On Beyoncé, Israel and Other Indiscretions